Feeling Rejected at Work
Published by admin, on Feb 15 2009, in the categories: Uncategorized
Feeling rejected at work sucks because work is the place where you spend most of your time during the day and so, if the group doesn`t accept you and you start all kinds of issues then it can be exhausting. This feeling can come out of some inner fears and bad thoughts. Maybe those people just don`t have nothing with you, it`s all in your head. Some people can be more critical and demanding. At work, especially if it`s a very important job, people expect the best from you and if you can`t manage then you will be harshly judged. This is normal because if you can`t do your job well then what`s the point of still working there. Being criticized at work means that you are given another chance. You are not fired but you have to pay attention. People criticize but it`s in your best interest. Feeling rejected is maybe for people who are more sensitive and suffer a lot if they are criticized or judged.
It`s normal to make some mistakes but it`s not normal to make the same mistakes all over again. Feeling rejected at work can cause serious problems at home also. A person that has a bad day every day can`t come home being another person. nerves and stress accumulate and it`s normal to snap. The career affects everything like intimate life also affects everything else. If you are not happy at home, you can`t concentrate enough at work. And if you have a hard time at work you can`t enjoy staying at home. If this feeling of rejection continues then it`s best to find another job. Maybe they really don`t like you, and why going to work just to face another battle.
As a conclusion, feeling rejected in any place most of the times is only in our head. And by, always thinking that you are rejected, you practically tend to stay more lonely and in the end this feeling or this idea becomes real, but only because of you. So, if you ever feel rejected, try to change some things and see what happens. Be more polite, talk more interact and if the situation still doesn`t change then maybe it`s not the group or the job for you.
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